Last week was the due date for the fourth baby we hoped to adopt. The baby passed away months ago, but my heart hasn’t quite let go. This week, I am sharing about the complicated emotions we experienced about this adoption, both before and after the loss.
I'm in favor of shorter engagements, around 6 months, rather than waiting a year or more for the “perfect wedding". My main motivation is chastity: it is really heard for engaged couples to be chaste when after some arbitrary future date, what is not permitted today will be required of them. Most of the arguments for longer engagements are bad, but I think ALL the arguments for longer engagements based on the demands of planning a wedding are bad. And now we find that shorter engagements can cost about half of longer engagements:
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God instructs us to pray, not to worry. I suffer with embracing this type of mentality most days if I am being honest. I put everything on my shoulders. As if I have created the lands and the sea. I do not trust God enough in my life and I should. I can do nothing without Him. Today, let us pray, hope and give it up to him. Remember …