š Be less kinky. Be more submissive.
Many men try to introduce FemDom by presenting fantasies.
Specific looks. Specific acts. Specific scenarios. Specific pleasures they want to receive.
And then they wonder why women refuse.
Because fantasy centers him. Submission should center her.
Real surrender begins when his focus shifts from what excites him to what fulfills her.
Less performance. More attention. Less script. More service.
That is where real power exchange begins.
ā Lady Vesper