Thank you for this article—it was a pleasure to read. Not only do I share your love for the film, but your ideas also resonate with me. In our pursuit of power, we may actually deprive ourselves of the kind of men who could truly fulfill us and be a good match. What’s even more disheartening, I think, is that the feminist movement, in some ways, limits our choices, as men like Rhett Butler are becoming increasingly rare.