It is amazing, that we cling to the belief, that as the sun rises every day, life would be a constantly repeating, renewing endless rythm.

“But you will die”

“Yes, of course, in the end”

“So imagine what happens, if your friend dies”

So we make a step to begin to think:

“what … if”

And every time something dramatically happens, we are surprised and afterwards much wiser then before.

Again and again.

Until we really deeply accept and rephrase the dialog:

“But you will die”

“Yes, of course, any time”

“So imagine what happens, as soon as your friend will die."

Then we have the chance to really live in the NOW and conciously do all you do now. Talk now. Write now. Smile now. Thank now. Laugh now.