Yes, yes, yes. It is wild that centering Christ in a Christian marriage book feels like a radical idea, but you’re absolutely right. If the advice does not reflect Jesus: His truth, His love, His way of laying down power for the sake of others, then what exactly are we doing? Marriage advice should not reinforce hierarchy or stereotypes; it should reflect mutual love, humility, and the fruits of the Spirit. Starting with Christ isn’t radical. It’s the whole point 🫶🏻