Thank you for writing this! After marrying my husband I started experiencing daily anxiety/ocd attacks and couldn’t stop agonizing over his high school relationship that happened six years earlier. They never even took their clothes off, but the fact that anything sexual had happened at all made me think he was bonded to her forever. I tried medication and counseling for three years, but it didn’t get better until I started to let go of my LDS beliefs. I still love Jesus but have been looking for a new spiritual home ever since. I have absolutely loved your work! It has been so healing and life-giving for me and my marriage, so thank you!