I’ve always side-eyed the hypergamy talk online. Access is not given, it’s inherited. Most wealthy men marry other wealthy women or other educated women. TikTok and other platforms are removing the nuance in these situations. I’m not mad at women for having hope but the reality is a lot of this tiktok advice is not real. Hypergamy is defintely real but we are simplifying the way to get access to it. It’s not going to come from you doing spells or wearing flowery dresses. It’s just not that simple or easy. I will always encourage women to use their beauty and erotic capital but don’t delude yourself.