I am not sure which denomination you serve, Hans, but I assume Protestant. I attended my United Church of Christ, Blue Christmas service this last Sunday. It is a time to focus on those people loved and lost at a time of year when we are caught up in the sparkle and shopping of the holiday season. It gives pause and consideration for the people who helped shaped and support us. At the end, I was able to light a candle for my late spouse. It is a beautiful event and I am grateful for it each year. Thank you for writing about it.