Great -- except for your emphasis on BIOLOGICAL parenthood and grandparenthood. My husband's son is adopted -- and no one could be more loved and more loving than he. My husband also, however, loves "my" daughter (technically, his stepdaughter); indeed he has told me that he loves my Sarah as much as he loves HIS Michael, although she was in 10th grade before he met her. And, on thinking about it, I believe I could say the same for my love for "his" Michael. Anonymous.