A lot of women do not desire to deconstruct patriarchy. There are a lot of women who are perfectly comfortable with the current terms and conditions of the patriarchal system. They are OK being a trophy and the objects of male desire. And I think that’s a hard pill to swallow for women who are going through a decenter men phase.

Some women derive their sense of self-worth and power from the sexual desires of men. Some women desire nothing more than to be beautiful vain creatures. And it’s far more women than a lot of us care to accept. But we have to accept it . We cannot change these women. This is who they choose to be . All you can do is choose your company wisely .