Thanks for this thoughtful framing Jeremy. A dear friend reminds me that there are always, at least, three truths. From your story - the first one is the truth that your ‘cousin/family friend holds’. The second is yours and the third is the truth. More people = more truths. For me - your analysis closes the gap between your truth and the truth. As I reflect on the story, I’m reminded of my challenge to maintain right relationship and letting go of my rightness. Here, too, I sense you’re finding your way. The self-awareness is so important as we find ways to build resilient, cohesive, loving community!!!