my thoughts on the poly lindy west interview are:

-i wish she’d been interviewed by a poly woman who chose to do it outside of a relationship instead of by someone who wasn’t comfortable pushing back on anything

-if a poly guy sends you a pic of his wife/gf/whatever “with their consent” and says they have a crush on you but youve never met or spoken, that man is lying in order to make a threesome happen and the gf/wife/whatever has confirmed she’s down