Says something about my work and scene when I hear orgasm gap I now think of the gap where men only usually get 1 orgasm and women get many :P :P

I stopped the whole obligatory orgasms for men thing ages ago, my last 2 partners always prioritise my orgasm and only ocassionally ejaculate and stop at any time if I’m bored. That’s just normal for me now and in most of the tantra/sacred eros spaces I engage with.