Being both Catholic and Asian, I feel I should have double dose of guilt, but I don’t. Sometimes I think something’s wrong with me. Maybe because I’m not originally a Catholic? I don’t know how to explain the Asian part — I AM originally Asian. When I read your piece, I thought about a video I saw recently where this person debated whether he was going to give money to begger or not and whether he thought the begger was going to use the money for drugs or alcohol. Then he felt convicted about the many times he himself wasted money.