My bffs husband died suddenly this week. She has always been the “power behind the throne.” Now she’s being urged to let her children step up and handle things while she’s in the depths of devastation and grief. They are capable and urging her to, they don’t want to lose her too. She’s really struggling with the concept of self care at this time, yet if ever there was a time for her to let go, it’s now. This is so hard.