I feel that many (and I have people close to me like this) are seeking perpetual happiness which they chase by pursuing activities they feel instantly gratifying. Overseas travel, going somewhere warm in winter, competing materially with peers, seeking stimulation from endless activity. There are bucket lists and experiences to be ticked off etc. They don’t recognise or remember the real reward and pleasure they get when acting collectively for the benefit of others or it’s experienced as being on a sports club committee or some such and they can’t see to transcribe this to broader life. Satisfaction is only gained from kudos from others. Intentions may be good but attention spans short. It’s only part of it of course.