Where do you think making belief/preference updates as a result of trusting people or caring about their desires (respectively) belongs in this taxonomy?

I basically agree these are the two options fundamentally, but I notice the relationship damage from reaching the wrong conclusion is usually smaller if people have credible evidence that I value their takes/wants/advice (examples are like: doing things to hedge against problems other people expect me to encounter, maintaining some credence that I’m wrong because smart people disagree with me, noticing I selfishly prefer worlds where other people like me and so making “compromises” for selfish reasons…) - all of this feels perfectly authentic to me because I just do often trust people and like seeing them enjoy stuff