When I was younger all I did was take on others emotions as my own. As I got older I understood more as I saw their past, and then I saw their potential.

As I continued to grow I realized that presence without judgment is the true gift. Many cannot and do not have that skill. Allowing the person to be seen in their shadow is the therapy and guiding them to the light is the healing. Being able to give guidance to the weary who can’t see the good in themselves is not an easy path.

Boundaries are important so there is not entanglement. Knowing yourself first is the only way to be the hermit with the lantern paving the way for those who walk with you. It doesn’t get easier, but the internal reward becomes greater. ❤️‍🩹