So perfect. And I agree. Part of ageing well is to ensure that your partner makes you feel like this: “I feel entirely safe, supported and content in our relationship: it’s the nest from which I fly.” That is, for me, the fundamental ‘home.’ Where the heart is. So yes, when I’m with each of my 2 kids (one rewarding me by moving to my current city to settle). In all the cities I have loved and lived in, in turn (Brussels, Geneva, Paris, now London. Lisbon, where I can’t convince my man to move to, so I teach there. Less my native Toronto). I have called each home for a time. And love now being ‘at home’ in all of them.