And now I also want to move to Paris…and as to your thoughts on different lives we could have/should have lived - I’ve been feeling a shift in my perception of this subject. Up until the age of about 42 I saw almost any of those other lives as an actual possibility that I simply choose not to pursue. Today at 47, I’m more prone to think that some of those lives can no longer be lived as there’s simply not enough time, or certain people are gone or certain conditions have changed…and this actually makes me sad or at least melancholic