Like parenting, marriage is relentless and unglamorous and difficult to do well. Which is why I’d love to feel support and encouragement as I aspire to be a happily married person. I don’t, though. Instead what I see everywhere is negativity about men and a holding up of divorce as the good and right choice for an empowered woman.

I don’t know about you but I really don’t think being able to message a therapist 24/7 from your room is going to do anything for the resilience of an anxious, socially awkward generation.