I also get dysphoria from other vaginas. I haven't really heard anyone talk about that so I appreciate this. Yeah, I think generally trying to change a preference that feels like it could come from a bias through having uncomfortable sex isn't good for anyone involved.
I also relate to accepting all advances for friendship or sex out of a sense of scarify. I did that a lotttt in my early-mid 20s. It has been so good for me to not accept advances towards friendship from people that make me uncomf…