This is the weirdest case of pearl clutching. He literally said “I hope your pager doesn’t go off.” In a genuine way, not sarcastically. He was making the connection between calling republicans fascists and inciting violence against them, and calling Palestinians all Hamas and justifying violence against them. He was saying both are bad.
I’ve never taken care of an elderly person but it sounds a lot like taking care of a baby. Just sleep in the same bed, use a two way baby monitor and set them up in the kitchen while you cook. People make their lives so hard when there’s simple hacks. But I see no point to doing all that for an elderly person. I’d rather my children put …