In these days following the death of my mother, I find myself looking for resources to help me ride the tidal wave of grief. And so…Substack community…please refer me to writers/writing you have found here on healing after grief/loss/death, especially with a parent for whom one has been caregiver. I process pain through writing, as I have done in this essay. And I also process it through the beautiful, empathetic words of others. I have found many wonderful resources over the past months here like Victoria . But the community here will surely know of more to help me make the hard work of grief less hard. Thank you!