There’s this idea that clarity shows up first…
and then you act.
But most of the time, it works the other way around.
You notice something.
It’s not fully formed.
It doesn’t come with instructions.
It doesn’t even feel particularly safe.
It just sits there like an open door you didn’t expect to see.
And instead of stepping toward it, your mind starts negotiating:
Is this the right thing?
What if it doesn’t work?
What if there’s something better?
So you pause.
You think.
You wait.
And in that waiting… the moment passes.
Not because it disappeared.
But because you chose not to meet it.