There is only one person in the world with whom, every time we speak, I learn something new. And I’m not talking a little factoid, I’m saying I learn something that fundamentally alters how I approach my life and relationships.

That person is Esther Perel!

Earlier this month, at an intimate brunch with other sex and relationship writers, I got to speak to the legendary psychotherapist for the third time.

She answered a number of questions about desire (or lack thereof)—and how to reconnect with it. (Because, and let’s be real here, inevitably, if you’re in a relationship long enough, your desire toward your partner is going to dwindle if you’re not paying attention.) 

There’s no paywall on this piece as I want everyone to read Esther’s words.

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