Does it ever get old, any message that amounts to, “It’s not just you?” Maybe I will print a t-shirt that says, “It’s not just you!” and then wherever I go, I’ll be reassuring people that the thing they beat themselves up over, the complex challenge of their life, doesn’t exist because they suck, because they’re a bad mother, because they’re not enough or too much, because they don’t have it together: we all wrestle something and not a single one of us is alone. It’s not just you.