One of my favourite things is being underestimated.
I’m not for everyone and I don’t try to be.
My husband has ALWAYS said to me;
if people can’t look past the glitter glue, they’ll never appreciate your intuitive and energetic sophistication.
I’ve been accused of being toxic when it comes to my positivity, a grifter when it comes to Substack education and unscrupulous with my pricing.
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As a kid I was an old soul, wise beyond my years. I had premonitions and was terrified by them before I started to trust what was happening as a gift. I lived in a tiny sleepy village where people chose ‘jobs for life’ or jobs and relationships were chosen for them.
I chose a creative career because it filled my cup and introduced me to fun people who were also excited about life.
I learnt to manage myself in relation to big egos from being a teenager and haven’t really stopped.
As an adult, I’m a professional space holder - I hold all the strands - the energetic, your female lineage, the pieces you’ve presented online to keep yourself small and safe.
But just so we’re clear - I’ve always felt powerful, a creatrix in life.
I don’t own ANYTHING from my childhood or teenage years except a tatty yellow rabbit.
I’ve travelled as a solo female across the world to many remote places and felt safer than I ever do in my capital city of London. lol
I bought my first home by myself on an arts salary when people told me it was impossible
I gave birth to a tiny human on my own in the pandemic
I took care of my husband when he was gravely ill, was gaslit by doctors, home educated my son all when my daughter was a newborn without any family or other support.
I built a 6 figure business and a 6 figure Substack on my terms in part time hours in my daughter’s early years.
Standing in your power is a choice, remembering who you are isn’t optional, inviting people to know you is a privilege. 💫