I did speak to an attorney about my mom and he said the bar for competency is very low and I likely would not win even though my mother was being financially drained and even abused. My mom’s mental issues derive from strokes so there is still a lot of herself left. She refuses to let any of the 3 out 4 children that would actually help her and protect her do so but the one that always harms is trusted completely. There’s no way to work in those parameters.