Thank you, Dr. Ray (if I may). Your experience and insight are definitely a welcome breath of fresh air. If you don't already have your own Substack, I encourage you to consider starting one. Folks like myself are in need of your kinda stories. Too many didn't survive the 80s and 90s to share theirs. And coming from a rather phobic, prudish family (except my dad...he let is all fly and gave no zucks), your kind of the kind of apple a day stories so many of us gays need. In my opinion. :-)