Shame is one of the most significant barriers to a child disclosing that something is wrong online.

The shame can come from the content they've shared. From feeling foolish for trusting someone. From beliefs about how their parents will react. From explicit messaging by the person causing harm: 'They'll blame you. They'll be so disappointed in you.'

None of this is the child's fault. But it feels like it is. And that feeling, carefully cultivated, is one of the most powerful tools available to someone causing harm.

Creating an environment where a child knows they will not be judged for what happened, only supported, is one of the most protective things a family can do. It starts long before anything goes wrong.

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