A scarcity mindset leaves others behind. An abundance mindset brings them with you.

A scarcity mindset always asks, “What’s in it for me!”vAn abundance mindset asks, “How can I be helpful?”

I’ve met many people who are only focused on building wealth for themselves and their families, even after they have made become wildly successful, and have more than enough. They are only focused on financial ROI in every decision they make. Social impact and legacy isn’t important to them.

I have also met people who have made it to the top of their careers, and aren’t interested in helping others get there. In fact, they might even go out of their way to make sure to stay on top.

Our society seems to be tearing itself apart because the haves don’t want to help the have nots. The exclusive groups don’t want to be inclusive. A number of those who have privilege are lacking empathy. They believe they climbed up the ladder themselves and are fine kicking out out behind them once they get to the top.

When you come from a scarcity mindset, you earn and keep everything for yourself, because you are afraid of losing it all. Philanthropy or taking risks are not an option, even if they could lead to more rewards both financially and spiritually. You play it safe and conservatively, constantly from a position of fear and anxiety. Enough is never enough.

If you have an abundance mindset, you see what is possible. You know that you can grow the table and add more seats, and there will always be enough, because together you are more than the sum of your parts. You can mentor and invest in others and share your resources to generate more and invite even more people to the table to join you. You can lift up other communities who haven't had the same privileges or benefits, so they in turn can do the same.

I read this quote today and it embodies everything I believe in. I had my first Filipino kamayan experience a few years ago. It is a a traditional communal feast that is laid out on banana leaves where guests use their bare hands to eat. Kamayan means “with hands” in Tagalog. The meal fosters community and connection. It is beautiful because there is no formality when you’re all eating with your hands and getting messy. People are authentically themselves, stripped of their pride and pretense. No fences, just a long table with more than enough for everyone.

I couldn’t think of a more perfect representation of the longer table I am on a mission to build.