I've long been mystified by your disdain for "who gets to decide". There is no absolute democracy anywhere, it is typically representative democracy where voting is above all else about who gets to decide.

Packing the court, a new collection of deciders and Roe v Wade gets canceled. Deciders in some places would make you a criminal for your disdain of they as a personal pronoun. If I was a decider on Medium you'd still have your account that was bringing you income, but I'm not a decider there.

I respect you as an intelligent man so I'm asking you to explain your view on that. I don't want to argue about it, I've already given my thoughts about it here. I would just like to resolve my puzzlement about your view on it.