I replied the following to a Medium article about heterosexual men being attracted to transwomen. At first his response was favorable, and then he blocked me:

"Your story here is certainly a different twist on the subject with some hard to deny truths. Years ago in Bangkok I was eating in a restaurant in the mall that burned and is now a giant aquarium. The restrooms were out in the mall, rather than in the restaurant. Walking thru the mall after the meal, heading for the WC I saw a lovely who gave rise to a Jimmy Carter moment. In Thailand you use the room you are plumbed for so to my surprise we ended up at adjacent urinals. S/he fooled me and yes, it was femininity. Notice that I used the word fooled. I'm not a urinal meat peeper, the sight of a sausage would have been a turd in the femininity punchbowl. Gender at that point would have become sex. My wife is Thai. She once commented about a kathoey which caused me to ask "Where?" Looked like a pretty woman to me. Her reply is relevant to your story. She said, "Kathoeys overdo femininity, it is not the natural femininity of a woman." If they are attractive, which is not universally true they do catch the eye of heterosexual men, at least up to a certain point. The point of this is they don't fool my wife or as best as I can tell, heterosexual women in general. Is it because they are attracted to masculinity, rather than femininity so their perceptions are not clouded? Sooo, adding this thought. Should transattracted be replaced with femininity attracted since the attraction will end for many when the whole truth is known?"

Participation in sports - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parinya_Charoenphol

And to the idea of homosexuals destroying marriage, it's hard for me to see how they can do any more damage to the institution than heterosexuals have dome given the current divorce rate.

The alphabet people (no insult intended) are all a part of our society and we need to be able to give everyone human respect and dignity, but belief in some of the extreme demands will be a long time coming.