On average, men rated “a fulfilling, active sex life” as #6 - more important than not getting their thumbs cut off, having 5 million dollars, extending their life 100 years, having perfect mental health, the ability to wear shoes, and the ability to listen to music. (By contrast, women rated it as #13 - less important than their thumbs and perfect mental health, a good relationship with their parents, feeling well rested after 5 hours of sleep, and a job they like that pays 3x the usual salary”)