BOOM! Think you nailed it there. My parents scrimped and saved and pinched the pennies until they screamed to put all 4 of us girls through Catholic schools, where the vast majority of our classmates saw us as the charity case family. I struggled with 'imposter syndrome' early in my career but once I had kids I made them my priority and didn't give 2 f's what people thought any more. Our 'women warriors' group that started during covid ranges from a woman who lives in public housing to a woman who lives in a multi-million dollar home (that has a great space for holding fundraisers and political events). We are all GOD'S children and are united by a common cause. My friend was never able to have kids, although her white trash brother had kids by 5 different women and she is a great aunt to all these nieces and nephews. But she definitely comes at all this with a superiority complex, that you are right, is probably driven by an inferiority complex. Never thought about it that way but think you are 100% right.