Damnit Donut! «One of my favorite likely apocryphal quotes is “Preach the gospel always. If necessary, use words.”» I looked it up, there isn’t any clear quote (and I thought it was Saint Paul!) but often misattributed to St.Francis. I do think however that words have been the preferred preaching method. The others might be more efficient, but then the preacher would have to actually preach… I also think you could get back to such a person with this sayin without quoting somebody. It should at least be a mirror for them to look into, Anyhow, thank you for this. I think your point about this person winning no matter what is important. Persecution does not help, but if the flight attendants do something I would be thankful. My strategy would be to ignore.