“If your husband can’t control his urges, that sounds pretty rapey.”

Let me backup…

A young woman in my local nanny group posted her hire-me-as-your-nanny pitch with sultry modeling photos. I commented, kindly, that the photos were gorgeous but not appropriate for a nanny application. No wife invites a half-dressed young woman into her home around her husband every day.

She DM’d me threatening to report me and have me removed from the group.

Then the rest of them showed up. A whole cackle of aspiring nannies defending her, calling wives jealous, husbands predators, basically calling common sense bigotry.

The loudest ones had seductive selfies as their profile pictures while insisting no family would ever see a nanny that way.

Someone else chimed in that half these applicants are moonlighting on OnlyFans 👀

Not one of them could hear the actual point. Not one.

A grown woman told them: don’t use bikini shots to apply for a childcare job. And they responded by calling her a pervert, threatening her with reports and defending the right to dress like an OnlyFans thumbnail while applying to raise someone’s children.

This is the talent pool.

These are the women asking to be trusted inside your home, around your husband, near your children and they cannot process a single sentence of honest feedback without collapsing into accusations and threats.

Vetting doesnt just apply to dating. Families vet nannies. Wives vet threats. The entire unhinged thread was the vetting doing its job.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Stay alert ladies and gentlemen. Always be vetting.