Edit: I was able to find it.

The album is Picture This by the Clumsy Lovers: clumsylovers.bandcamp.com/album/picture…

I can’t find any of the songs from the album on youtube, but here’s another good song from them: youtube.com/watch?v=YbSED7EghJA

Requesting help from people on substack with a broad base of musical knowledge (

,

Brad Kyle

— who would know about obscure bands).

There’s a Canadian indie band that has an early album with a song based on Kierkegaard’s Stages On Life’s Way with a line in the chorus, “reality is not the terror, possibility is”. I cannot remember the band or album title and google is not helping me at all.

Edit: I think the line is

“Reality is not the terror, possibility is / everything’s slipping away” (and “everything’s slipping away” might be the song title) but that still isn’t helping me.