i’ve seen the ~discourse~ and can’t speak for all women, matter of fact i shouldn’t even speak for this one woman, but for me the thing that makes the books and show most appealing is that it’s easy to project onto these men without the reflexive analysis of, say, wondering why no one ever put their multimillion-dollar professional hockey career in jeopardy for me. no need to speculate on whether or not if i had a different body or a better personality someone would have fucked up their entire life just to put their gigantic dick in my butt in the empty building i bought for us to fuck in. it’s a relief to be a braindead voyeur, to watch my biological sons who are also my husbands kiss each other on the mouth without thinking something stupid and nasty about myself.