I haven’t been ghosted for a while (I’m due one soon I expect) but I can remember well that sharp slap of bewilderment and humiliation on top of the the emotional shitshow that a break-up already is. There are so many deeply emotionally inadequate people that walk among us and who are massively overrepresented in the dating pool. If it’s any consolation right now, every single man who has ever ghosted me, I now look back on and think “thank fuck they did that”