Bari - you do a terrific job of choosing your subject and presenting it in a way the fosters really good dialog! I am so thankful for that. This column is an excellent example of this. Most of the comments are thoughtful and present differing viewpoints (imagine that!) because the folks who follow you seem to be, overall, intelligent and reasonable. I thoroughly enjoy your columns and the comments! I am about to return to working from the office so won't have as much time to participate as I have since I joined. I'll miss that.