my first essay will be uploaded on my birthday (march aries are hotter) on a topic everyone loves to talk over Asian women about: WMAF a negotiation between fetishization and erasure framed as the classic “preference”

what does it mean when Asian women continuously choose proximity to whiteness and power in their dating preferences?

what does it mean when the safest place to exist is next to someone that doesn’t fully see you?

why do Asian women’s desire itself feel like a site where negotiation, internalized racism, fetishization and perpetual foreignization meet?

what does it mean to be unseen over being consumed? and what forms of violence become normalized with that decision?

will be working on an essay exploring these questions in a longer essay <3