I feel this. It reminds me of the essay 'Exiting the Vampire Castle.'
The question is, still, how do we get out? Is there a way out that still incorporates a reliable method of disincentivizing abuse - of protection/justice against serious harms?
I've been thinking on this a lot over the past few months, and I think one way to get out of this on a personal level is a re-commitment to the present and what is in front of you, and a rejection of digital space as a whole. The internet as it was is dead and I don't know how politically useful it is anymore in it's current iteration.
The movement as described in this essay is primarily a digital creation and it would probably be simplest within productive spaces to reject this type of attitude as a digital creation, and to spend most of our time and energy existing in the real world away from the dogmatism of this way of thinking. There is no way of avoiding it as the world now is digital, but I think it's possible to carve out life outside of that arena, and it is probably essential now to re-focus our efforts toward each other in real space in ways that benefit our communities and the people around us.