There are many parts of this discussion that I agree with. However, the author left out a part of gay culture which is increasingly questionable - drag. Drag is a gay activity where men dress as exaggerated women, and make sexually edgy jokes and behaviors. In adults-only spaces, this is fine. But the recent 10 years or so, drag has been expanded to children. In addition, the "queer" sensibility of "embarrass the bourgeois" is part of drag. These make a toxic mix for children.

Drag story hours, drag performances in schools, drag public performances - these are all unacceptable. Drag is not for children. Children should not be seeing fake butt sex in public, and the variety of other edgy actions.

Put drag back in the closet or the nightclub. No more reading to children, or getting children to stick money in the pants of adult men. That kind of thing is part of the backlash.