One of my goals this year is to truly decenter men from my life. A lot of women think decentering men just means removing yourself from the dating pool, but it is deeper than that. It is actively choosing yourself every day and creating a life that is undeniably yours. I want to share this journey on Substack, and this is my first piece. I have been having a lot of conversations with myself about where I learned certain behaviors and how I view life, and I am going to write through that. This piece is the first of many!

From Jahra,

With Love <3