New essay up. I thought I was just writing about “women and wealth,” but what actually came out was every uncomfortable pattern I’ve watched for years.
Why a man’s money is seen as stabilising but a woman’s money is seen as destabilising.
Why daughters sign away inheritance “for peace.”
Why a rich woman has to be ethical, generous, grateful, grounded, and intersectionally literate… while rich men are allowed to be rich.
Somewhere in there, I realised I’ve spent years apologising for wanting safety, margin, and options. This piece is me refusing to apologise, and inviting you to at least look at where you’ve been doing the same.