I remember the exact moment I snapped: After the attack, I was asked with frustration, why I had left my apartment alone at 6pm. SIX PM. As a 5 foot 10 inch forty year old, wearing outdoor winter layers… In a nice area, in a city I was reassured was safe. I couldn’t believe I was in my fourth decade of being asked about my behavior, rather than the behavior of the men who attack women, being questioned. It was my responsibility to not be raped or murdered.