A very good question, especially now. We tend to outsource our intuition to "experts." I also think the breakdown of the American family plays a huge role. Politicians (and unethical but perhaps well intentioned therapists) and the entire education system like to blame parents, especially mothers. This is something Jennifer Moiles, founding member of the Council for the Revival of Matriarchal Arts, writes about a lot. (I recommend her Substack about matriarchy). When a young family does not have wise elders to turn to--or is unwilling to listen to experience--they put their trust in a for-profit medical system that benefits the most when the parents and their children stay chronically ill their whole lives.