Gia - I’ve spent 25 years feeling it all - once you start, it never really ends.

But it can become background noise. Which doesn’t drown you in tears and rage.

Your son, like mine, may need help that is more than you can give. Don’t put that off. I didn’t want to see how deeply divorce can damage a child’s world. Because I was the one who instigated the divorce to save my own happiness.

But no matter if it was or wasn’t your choice, it definitely was not your son’s. Your love isn’t enough to fix that wound. I tell you this from sad experience. I wish someone had told me.

Sending you my very best wishes for a happy life for you and your son.